
Relationship Values Assessment
STARDUST SELF · CONNECT TOOL
Relationship Values Assessment
Discover what you most want your relationships to stand for, then turn those values into observable choices, expectations and boundaries.
Explore my values✦
Two people can share a value but express it differently. The useful question is whether your ways of living that value are compatible enough to create mutual wellbeing.
STEP 1 · SELECT WHAT MATTERS
Choose up to eight relationship values
Select the qualities that feel essential—not only appealing. You will narrow these to three next.
My core values
These values are visible when
A boundary that protects them
How I can practise them
Compatibility needs behaviour.
A value named but repeatedly contradicted by behaviour cannot carry a relationship on its own. Look for shared meaning, mutual practice and willingness to repair.
Your values help you recognise both connection and mismatch.
They can guide who receives access, what you communicate, which compromises remain healthy and when choosing yourself is necessary.